Nithya Anthony Dass

Nithya Anthony Dass you wrote 10 things about me right? well im going to write 11 things about you just to irritate you..11 things about Nithya you should know =p

1)Kind
2)loving
3)talks to her cat =p
4)a very good companion
5)hardworking
6)smartypants
7)naturally beautiful
8)Shoppaholic
9)exuberant and cheerful
10)Understanding
11)GENEROUS!!

haha theres alot more that i can post but since u posted 10 so i just post 11 la okay?? haha

things i did,doings and going to be done

So the world cup is over and its been a whole month since im out from the hospital and the super deppression that i went through..anyways the good times has already begun since i left the hospital with a new life and new things in mind and forgot most of the grudges i had against people who apparently hated me except for that "BABI" other than that i suppose everything is back to normal and even better...im back with my family and friends and made new ones along the way in work so many other places who apparently enjoy my company..and actually appreciate me and take me for who im and not judge me like all the other people who had issues with me...





Well the 24th of July will be historical day in my life because i will get my first tatoo on my left upper hand..one of the days that i will cherish the most..because that tatoo actually means so much to me and symbolises alot of things in my life that has been great no matter what i went through which means my family,friends and alot more of other special people who was always there for me when i needed them the most..and as for my work..im actually having fun here just that i hate the shift for the time being...meeting alot of new people and dont worry no girls..!!! lol..



and how can i forget the person i call miss GORGEOUS..hahaha well im learning alot of new other words...the latest i heard was "NOOOOOOOOOOOOO Germany are worst than VEGETABLES"!! hahaha what is that suppose to mean?? im telling you shes a clown and a half...sleeps of while doing her work and repeats her apologies as tho she did something really bad...multi-tasking like nobodies bussiness...haha well all i can say is glad that i got to know you and thank you for giving me that chance to know you..it has been a pleasure...actually i know i said this in my previous blog just that if i say anything further im going to look like im exagerating the whole situation..hope you understand =D



PS: it is a miracle when you send a text longer than 10 words... =P





and so i finally went shopping when i actually got my first salary..i paid a visit to Topmen,Bodyshop,Extreme and a few other outlets =D...had a few drinking sessions and outing with my darling friends..owh and guess what?? to my working department im actually a MVP-MostValued Player for futsal..thats the first time in all the places i went and worked this was actuall the first time that my passion for football/futsal was actually acknowledged and appreciated..i felt so special because of the VIP status that i achieved in futsal for my department..my AVP-Assistant Vice President actually called me a hidden talent..=D yipee!! well i guess that wont last long but however they decided to form a strong team comprising members from my department that actually includes me in the team...thats a plus point... and my sisters are actually growing up..gosh i wasnt even around enough to notice that and how much i regret..



well things have changed..tho somethings about me remain the same i still strive to change eenie meenie things about me..no one is perfect but to me i think that being who i am, im perfect in my own way..and nothing can change that because im the one and only "MELVIN REYNELL LOWE" i dont know if people has actually used this quotation before this but this is what i believe "IM WHO IM,I BELIEVE IN WHO IM,I STAND FOR WHAT IM,IF THIS IS ME SO BE IT AND NOTHING IN THIS WORLD CAN EVER CHANGE THAT,IF U CANT LIVE WITH IT? DEAL WITH IT BECAUSE I DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE HAVE TO SAY ABOUT ME"

So before i end this a small sugary stuff okay?

" I Cant Help smiling when i look at you,to keep from going crazy is all i can do,im so defenceless with you so close,the walls have crumbled from my body and soul
All my toughts in all i do and in all i say,i belong to you with every breath i take


Write your name across my heart,i want the world to know that im yours forever and i'll wear it like a shining star,write your name across my heart"

MY New Life...

So hello peeps..im actually back to blogging after a long long long absence because there was alot of things that happened in my time of absence.Wondering what im talking about? well to start i was down with denggue,i fought with my friends,broke up with my "BABY",got chased out from my house and a few more which i will explain shortly...


Denggue one of the most dangerous discease that you could possibly get from a small eenie meenie mosquito..Thats what happened to me exactly..That small pest made me bedridden for 13 days...I spent 6 days in the ICU ward-Intensive care unit and 7 days in the normal ward..i was induced into coma for two days and so i nearly lost my life...but then thanks to everyone's prayers and thoughts im here today typing out this blog after a long time..i really appreciate whatever that has been done in order to keep me alive the thank you's go to God,doctors,nurses,family,friends and alot of other loved ones who really cared for me..well let cut this sad story short im actually happy now and one thing i learned is that life is short you should take whatever that comes your way and live your life...you want to know why im saying this come and ask me and i will tell you why.. *laughs*


And moving on...remember my earlier blogs there was this someone called "BABY" she actually became a "BABI"..well we were so happy and then suddenly everything changes and i got hurt badly got deepressed and started doing alot of stupid stuff and started changing myself...i put my family and friends aside because of that "BABI" and that actually put me in shit...and honestly i regret whatever i did because in the end the people i put aside are the ones that actually cared for me all this while..and i didnt even bother to notice that...well now that i know and have learned my lesson, i actually started to appreciate the things i have in life...and all the things that im picking up along the way..to cut things short..she really broke me apart and im on the process of piecing my self together again..but im on the look again..haha what the heck do i need to care for??


And guess what...i actually met someone new whom i see all the time but i never spoke to her till one faithful day i decided to start a conversation and since that day im honestly very happy with her presence and her company..shes actually the first of her kind that i ever met in my life...seriously...have you meet someone who curses using the word "OH SUGAR" ?? or Sugar spice and everything nice?? say goodbye with TOodles?? haha thats what i meant..shes unique in her own special way..im happy to know her and i dont know if thats the same with her..but ya thats what i feel...and its very obvious that we are total opposites of each other...well i hope that this will last and get better...
SPECIAL THANX TO- NITHYA ANTHONY DASS@BLUSHING SLOTH =P Nice knowing you...


owh and Goodness i forgot im going to get my tatoo soon...on the 24th of July im going to get my first ever tatoo..YIPEE!!! its a angel tatoo...that symbolises my guardian angel whom i know is always beside me guarding me...and my escape from death..i will post the picture here..you guys can check it out...

Well honestly im very lazy to actually type now...so thats it for now..hope you all enjoyed..have fun till next time...

ROGER AND OUT SIR

The Life and times of Melvin -_-

Hey guys its been a while since i last blogged.I was kind of busy with college and stuff.Well im back and i've got loads of stories to tell however im kinda blur with where do i want to start the story.Honestly there's alot so i might miss out some of it, but promise you guys the moment i remember something i will come and add it up as well okay? okay so here goes the first incident.............

So i will just start with me and maxine. My beloved other half of me whom i've been sharing the past 6 months with her.Wonder how time flied because i still remember the day i told her that i love her on the church rooftop was like yesterday, and next thing i know now its already 6 months which is half a year...and in that 6 months the amount of obstacles that we went through were tremendous...pure hurt and pain caused by things that just tend to happen..silly fights that end up with the both of us crying most of the time..not something i want but its just something that happens..mostly its because of her mum and cousins and sometimes(now days most of the time) its being me..well all i can say is despite all this turmoil happening around us i can say this proudly that " I REALLY LOVE HER AND GLAD THAt I HAVE HER IN MY LIFE, SHE GIVES ME EVERYTHING, AND WITHOUT EVERYTHING IM NOTHING IF I AINT GOT YOU" i know sometimes the things i say may hurt but sometimes i just tend to care too much and i know u hate it but i cant help it my dear...im just trying to be there for you..i really hope you understand me on that my dear..

Well my parents are also being a pain at the moment finding it hard to actually live with them with the things that is going on at the moment...i really dont want to diss them but ive got no choice..why im doing this simple..because i hate it when people talk bad about my friends without even knowing them, and my dad immediately attacked my friends saying that we go out and do stupid things,they corrupted me and they are useless...now would you like it if i said that about your fucked up friends?? and on top of that he even goes to the level where he says " You dont Fuck around with me,you are my fucking son..if i want i can put you and ur stupid friends in shit if i want to..dont fuck around with me" nice words to hear from a father huh?? well i just dont care anymore..

Things havent been going through well for me financially as well since my college allowance havent came in yet so im actually preety tight but i can bear with it but not with my parents money..oh ya and i almost forgot "MY DARLING" got a I-Phone..doesnt that sound nice?? haha well all i got to say is im happy for her..and i really hope she doesnt come and brag to me about that phone because i hate that phone..!!!! anyway guys i think im really losing my mood typing...till next time k guys?? Love u all and especially u "MY DEAR JULIET WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL"

November-December seasons of the months!!

Hey Guys its been a while since i last wrote..well im back...haha lame..anyway since the last time i wrote alot of things have been happening or happened..first of all my college,maxine my juliet,family and friends...

Now lets start off with college...im actually starting college on january..my application went through..so there begins my 3 year journey in nursing...i will graduate when im 21..haha sadly but i made a vow that i will do my best and get a scholarship to complete my studies..wish me luck guys...

Maxine o Maxine where art thou? haha well its been 4 months since Maxine and me got together...sharing our life since then...what a wonderful four months it has been...full of love,caring,arguements,fights and understanding..shes the best thing that happened to me...i love her too much to ever stop liking her...shes just such an amazing person...she gives me unconditional love...tho at times there is flaws but i cant blame her because no one is perfect...but this are like silly ones la..but its k...i guess its part of her and people learn from mistakes so ya...to tell u guys honestly i i've had the best 4 months of my life with her in it...you are the meaning of my,your the inspiration of my life...

I believe that in my last blog i mentioned that i have certain issues with her family...well i braced myself and went and settled it with her family..firstly her mum and then her cousins and then her dad lastly...but i felt very relieved that i wont go into christmas knowing that there is a family out there that despises me..but thank god its all settled and everything is back to normal for them but for my family since that day it was hard for them to accept what happened..so im still trying to get them to forget what happened...


So ya i guess thats it for now but i will catch you all later aite...before i end this blog a little something for her


"I Remember what you wore on your first day,You came into my life and i thought hey,You Know this could be something,
Because everything you do and words you say,You Know it all takes my breath away,And now im left with nothing...

So Maybe its true,that i cant live without you, and maybe two is better than one...
But theres so much time to figure out the best of our live and you got me coming undone,


I remember every look upon your face,the way you roll your eyes, the way you say, You make it hard for breathing,
cause when i close my eyes and drift away, I think Of you and everythings okay,Im finally now believing...

So maybe its true i cant live without you,maybe two is better than one..theres so much time to figure out the rest of my live..

Going and going!!

Hi People im back after a weeks absence from blogging..so not many things have happened in the past week..however "Christmas Is Here" the christmas tree has been put up and the holly has been decorated..so technically christmas is already here...ok fine that was lame but im just excited about christmas..

Aaron's sister's wedding has already finished..but the whole wedding ceremony was marred by an issue that was brought up by his mother..who is my god mother and grandaunt that im too never ever stay in his house again because i went out without permission to meet my "Baby Boo" and she thinks i was not helpful enough during the wedding week..i dont blame her and not even myself just that knowing her i know for a fact that even if i ask permission i will not be allowed to go and meet her or go anywhere else so thats why im banned from going there...its ok Aaron im obviously going to miss staying over at your place but i still love you man..your house was the only place that i go and stay over but now that also gone..never mind...

And so my life went on after the wedding and my "Baby Boo" had her cousins wedding to attend in Singapore the land of dreams..i think..so in the build up of her departure to Singapore i was actually sad..not say i dont want her to go there and have fun but this was going to be the first time that shes leaving me and going off for a few days...well she promised that she will call me from there, go online or text me..so i got the feeling that she can sense that im very down..however that wasn't the case because from friday the 20th till tuesday the 24th i never heard from her...i dont blame her but what can i say..But definately i miss her like crazy even more than words can say, miss her every minute of every single day, when i think of her i dont know what to do and when will i ever see her again..

While she was gone that weekend i had a church camp to attend to where the band that im in were the facilitators so i went and had fun there but somehow the thought of her was lingering in my mind and so the fun turned to grief in an instance but thank my lucky stars that i had a wonderful bunch of participants at the camp that actually managed to cheer me up..tho it was to no avail at least they made me smile and tried their best...Yet they are a really wonderful bunch of people...so many sweet messages forwarded to me and there was this 1 particular message that really was disturbing..it was actually cursing me..because i ruined her plans of meeting her boyfriend during the camp..which actually meant that i was doing my job!! haha it was fun la!!


I guess other than that it was just me and my laptop waiting every night without fail just incase if my "Baby Boo" would come online but she never did...so its ok im still alive..and going on with my life the way it is!! i guess thats it i have to say for now about how my life is going...so i guess till next time then...adios Amigos!!


PS: I Love You!!

Living my life just the way it is!!

So im back after a 2 weeks absence...well thats because im actually busy with my new job in the clinic as a medical assistant....so my new job is interesting minus the fact that its tough as well because im the only one whos actually working in the clinic for the time being other than then doctor..and at the same time ive actually got my hands full with aaron's sister's wedding that is really going to be a blast..

Been actually living the past one week with aarons family because they needed extra hands so i decided to take the week off and offer some help here..everything is set..the church bells will be ringing,Tears of joy will be dropping and screams of joy will also be heard..hahaha and definately im going to have a blast as well but somehow its going to be a shortlived one because monday im back to work and the other reason is my "Baby B" cant join me for the function!!!

Ah no the interesting part is because its actually 2 months since i have been together with my "BABY"..well everything is fine..there is the usual couple arguements and fights and misunderstanding that is normal but putting all that aside whatever that happened is actually bringing us even closer and deeper to each other...but theres just this one issue that involves her family where its kind off a big problem at the moment but i cant do anything but pray that this will all be over soon...i really dont care about the consequenses of this problem because i know for a fact that no matter what happens me and my "BABY B" will always be together and still loving each other...shes the best thing that ever happened to me...and i really love her...always there for me when i need her,loving,caring as always and always always a sweetheart...shes like the only person who doesnt misunderstand me...haha well enough said about her you all should know by now how much she means to me!!


Well Times have surely flied pass because when it was the beggining of the year i was so excited about aarons sisters wedding and christmas this year..but now look hahaha aarons sisters wedding is about to be over soon and christmas is around the corner..and im going to start college in 2 months time!! hahahah nicely done!! lol anyway thats it for now!! will be back soon to update you all about it!!!haha